Mishloach Manot & Matanot La'evyonim
What Are Mishloach Manot?
The holiday of Purim is marked by a number of unique rituals and traditions. We dress up in costumes, share a festive meal, and listen to the Megillah in
But Purim isn’t just about appreciating the kindness from God that we received, it’s also a day for celebrating how much kindness we can give to others. In fact, on
Why Do We Give Mishloach Manot Gifts On Purim?
The practice of giving Mishloach Manot can be traced back to the Book of Esther and the origin of Purim itself.
We celebrate Purim to commemorate how Esther and Mordechai saved the Jews from Haman’s evil decree of genocide. We tend to think of the climax of the Purim story as the moment when Queen Esther reveals to King Achashverosh that she is herself a Jew, a member of the very people whom Haman is persecuting. The King swiftly turns against Haman and orders his execution.
But the Jews actually aren’t safe yet. The royal edict calling for the Jews’ destruction is still standing, and even the King himself cannot withdraw a royal edict once it is passed. Esther and Mordechai must confront the King a second time, and this time they convince him to allow the Jews to fight back. Curious why the King had to be asked twice to save the Jews? Click here to learn more.
The Jews do indeed fight back and triumph over their enemies.
Now we know the source for sending Mishloach Manot on Purim, but what’s the significance behind this practice? Why did the Jews celebrate their military victory in this way, and why is it so important to continue this practice today?
Our Sages offer two explanations behind the mitzvah of giving Mishloach Manot.
The first reason for Mishloach Manot ties into the commandment to have a festive meal on Purim. The gifts of food we give each other are meant to contribute
The second reason our Sages provide is that giving each other gifts enhances unity and friendship amongst the Jewish people.
Unlike the majority of Jewish holidays, the story of Purim occurred while the Jews were in exile. Haman’s attack on the Jewish people actually stems from this fact. He describes the Jews to King Achashverosh as a people “scattered and divided amongst the nations” (3:8
At the end of the Purim story, the Jews remain in exile, but no one could call them “scattered and divided.” Quite the contrary; the Jewish military victory at the end of the Megillah showcases how united the Jews were even in
The act of giving Mishloach Manot on Purim may be understood as our way of directly countering Haman’s description of the Jewish people as scattered and divided. The Shalach Manosgifts we give each other serve to acknowledge and strengthen the integral bonds of friendship and solidarity upon which our survival as a nation depended – and still depends.
Mishloach Manot Requirements & Rules
As Purim nears, kosher markets and grocery stores fill with ready-made gift baskets chock-full of chocolates, pastries, hamentashen, wine and other treats – which is why Mishloach Manot are often referred to as “Purim Baskets” in English. Many families, however, prefer to make DIY Shalach Manos. While some keep their ideas simple, others develop elaborate themes to tie their gift food items together. However packaged, all Mishloach Manot must follow a few key guidelines in order to fulfill the obligations.
What to put in your Mishloach Manot basket
While Purim baskets are often overflowing with goodies, the mitzvah of Mishloach Manot is fulfilled by giving just two food or drink items to one person.
It is necessary, however, to give two different types of foods, not just two of the same item. Two cookies, for example, wouldn’t count as a kosher Purim gift, but a cookie and a brownie would make a delicious Shalach Manos. This is true despite the fact that both the cookie and the brownie require the same blessing of “
The mitzvah of Mishloach Manot is also specifically to give ready-to-eat foods. A packet of flour and a carton of eggs would not be an appropriate Purim gift. Otherwise, essentially anything kosher and edible is acceptable to include in a Purim basket. Granted, most Mishloach Manot
There is no set minimum portion size for the food included in Mishloach Manot. The food should be of a normal quantity given the cultural standards and economic abilities of the giver and receiver. Wealthier individuals are encouraged to enhance the mitzvah by including more than the minimum two foods in their Purim baskets, but poorer individuals do not need to go above and beyond in this way. Our Sages also specify that one should give more lavish Mishloach Manot to wealthier friends, as it is important for a Purim gift to be a true gift in the eye of the receiver.
When To Send Mishloach Manot Baskets
The mitzvah to give Mishloach Manot does not extend throughout all of Purim. The obligation is specifically to give Mishloach Manot on Purim day. This means that gifts
It’s also best to wait to give Purim gifts until after the second reading of the Megillah on Purim morning. The reason for this is so Mishloach Manot will be given after hearing the “
It’s very important that Mishloach Manot
Rabbinic authorities disagree regarding whether Mishloach Manot must also be sent on Purim itself. For example, if you drop a box of Shalach Manos in the mail three days early knowing that it will definitely arrive at its destination on Purim day, does this still count as a kosher Purim gift? Some rabbis say yes, but others say no.
Who Is Obligated To Give Purim Gifts?
Both men and women are equally obligated to send Mishloach Manot, and even young children are encouraged as well. As the commandment of Mishloach Manot is specifically to send gifts to each other, not just to give them, many
As Mishloach Manot are not charitable gifts, but gifts of friendship, the recipient may be anybody who the giver wishes. Family members are allowed to give to each other, and giving to a wealthy person who does not need the food fulfills the obligation as much as giving to someone poor.
Mishloach Manot should not be given anonymously. It’s actually really important to know who you have to thank for the thoughtful Purim gifts you receive. Long after all the tasty foods are eaten and gone, it is the friendship and good will built through the giving and receiving of Mishloach Manot that will live on.