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Joseph's... Groundhog Day?

Why Do The Events In Joseph’s Life Keep Repeating?

Rabbi David Fohrman

Rabbi David Fohrman

Founder and Lead Scholar

Parshat Vayeishev tells us a story about Joseph. There’s this drama between him and the other members of his household. It all comes to a climax when Joseph is stripped of his clothes – and his coat is brought to the head of the house and presented as false evidence. Oh, and Joseph is thrown into a bor, a pit. What story are we describing?

Easy, right? It’s the sale of Joseph… right? When the sons of Jacob gang up on poor Joseph and sell him into slavery. Wrong. It’s the replay of the sale of Joseph story. Oh, you didn’t know that there was a replay? Actually, there are three. And they’re all in Parshat Vayeishev.

What are these mysterious three stories? And what does it all mean? Why does this pivotal event from Joseph’s life keep replaying? Why is Joseph living in a Groundhog’s Day universe?

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Teacher Guide: Joseph's... Groundhog Day?
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Hi everybody, this is Rabbi David Fohrman, and welcome to Parshat Vayeishev. You are watching Aleph Beta.

Parshat Vayeishev launches us into the Joseph story – it’s a saga that will occupy us for the rest of the Book of Genesis.

The Timeline of Joseph's Life Story

It’s got all these really interesting parts to it:

  • Joseph’s early life;
  • his sale as a slave;
  • a little cameo involving Judah and his involvement with Tamar;
  • then, back to Joseph and his rise to prominence in the house of Potiphar;
  • the story of how Potiphar’s wife tries to seduce him and ultimately frames him and sends him to prison;
  • then, Joseph’s encounter with Pharaoh, his becoming viceroy over all of Egypt, and so on.

So, these are the vignettes comprise the surface story of the text.

But I want to share with you something that may be going on underneath the surface of the text. A pattern that seems to permeate a vast expanse of this story. I want to share the pattern with you – and ponder what it might mean.

Connections to Joseph's Life in the Bible

So this pattern, if its right to call it that, starts in chapter 38, right after the story of the Sale of Joseph begins. In many ways, this chapter is actually the most perplexing chapter in the entire Book of Genesis, just because… it seems so entirely out of place.

I mean, there’s this horrific, terrible story going on… Brothers jump their brother, kidnap him and engineer his sale as a slave. They cover it all up by putting blood on his coat, and suggesting to their father that his beloved son has been ripped to pieces. And then BANG all of a sudden, the Torah just hits the pause button on that story, leaving us completely hanging as to what happens to these people – to Joseph, the victim; to the band of brothers who did this; to father who’s grieving – and instead, the Torah launches us into just an extended digression that seems to have nothing to do with anything: The story of Judah and Tamar.

So what happens in that story of Judah and Tamar? Well, it's lengthy but here’s the basic gist of it: Yehudah has three sons. The oldest of his sons, Er, marries a woman by the name of Tamar. Er, he dies young and he’s childless, so it falls to Onan, the next oldest child of Judah, to marry Tamar and hopefully have children, in order to carry on the name of the deceased Er.

But Onan isn’t interested, and before you know it, God does away with him – leaving only the last child of Judah, Shelah, who could possibly marry Tamar and give birth to a child that would extend Er’s legacy.

So you see what I mean about this seeming like a digression. But now, keep on reading, because at this point, all sorts of strange things start happening. For our purposes, let’s just say there’s a disguise, there’s an act of seduction, and along the way, Yehudah finds himself promising a goat to Tamar. But, he doesn’t happen to have a goat handy, so he gives her his coat, as collateral.

So it’s certainly an intriguing story, this episode involving Yehudah and Tamar. But of course, what, in blazes, does it have to do with the story of Joseph? Why is this story even here?

Well, here might be the beginnings of an answer. This whole story of Judah and Tamar, this supposed digression, it does have something to do with the Sale of Joseph. The key to the puzzle is: “No goat. Coat?”

You see, Judah, in the Tamar story, he finds himself dealing with goats and coats. Later, at the very end of the story, Tamar – who’s got Judah’s coat – challenges him to recognize whether the coat is his, asking him: haker na, do you recognize this coat?

Going Back Through Joseph's Life Timeline

Well, we’ve heard all that before. Because Judah had once, before, had dealt with goats and coats. He had done so back in the Sale of Joseph.

In that story, Judah and the brothers had stripped Joseph of his coat; then, they slaughtered a goat and put its blood on that coat, sending it to their father. And as they did that, what did they ask father? Haker na, ‘Do you recognize this coat?’

It’s a remarkable series of connections. And the truth is, it’s just the beginning. This is really just scratching the surface of the connections between the story of Yehudah and Tamar and the Joseph story.

Time doesn’t allow me to go into all of them now. But trust me, manifold connections are there. If you’d like to see them, check on the whole course on this at Aleph Beta – there are links below to it.

But suffice to say, for the time being, that we might be seeing the beginning of a pattern. The pattern kinda goes like this. There’s this terrible story, the sale of Joseph. But it seems to be repeating itself, somehow, in the very next episode.

So now I want you to go to the third episode in the Joseph saga, and let’s examine whether this pattern of repetition sort of continues. The third episode involves Joseph’s interactions in Egypt, in the House of Potiphar.

It Happens Again in Joseph's Life

So just to summarize this third episode: Yosef has been sold off as a slave to Egypt, and has entered the house of Potiphar, an Egyptian nobleman. And Yosef earns the complete trust of his master, he puts him in charge of the whole house. But then that trust is put to the test when Yosef is faced with advances from Potiphar’s wife.

Yosef resists, and when she won’t take no for an answer, she grabs hold of his coat. In a split second, he makes this choice: he slips out of his coat and runs outside. And Mrs. Potiphar, enraged, turns the situation around.

Using the coat in her hands as evidence, false evidence, she lodges an accusation of attempted rape against Yosef. Yosef is condemned to the royal dungeons, where he languishes for many long years.

All right, so that’s the story... does any of this remind you of anything we’ve heard before?

Well, of course it certainly does. Just ask: When else does Yosef occupy a similar position of responsibility in a household, second in charge to the man of the house? When else does Yosef face a crisis, brought about by other members of that household? When else does he lose a coat? When else do adversaries of his use the coat as false evidence, and lie about him to the master of the house? When else is Yosef condemned to go in a veritable hole in the ground afterwards?

Well, the answer of course to all that is clear. All this happened in the story of Yosef’s sale, of course.

So, it really does seem like there’s this pattern going on here, right? You know, first we found that the supposed digression involving Yehudah and Tamar wasn’t really a digression; instead, it seemed like this repetition of these things that happened back when Joseph was sold.

But now, it's larger than just that: All this stuff that’s happening between Potiphar, Mrs. Potiphar and Joseph in the very next story that, too, feels like a big replay of the story with the pit! And so it sort of seems like there’s this kind of pattern happening.

If it’s really a pattern… you’d expect it to happen again, right? As the old saying goes, once is an accident, twice is a coincidence and three times… is a pattern. So… does all this happen a third time?

Well, I’m glad you asked. Because, as it happens, it does.

The Pharaoh Chapter in Joseph's Life Timeline

Let’s look at what happens after Joseph gets thrown in the dungeon by Potiphar. The next major story in the Joseph saga is about how Joseph gets out of that dungeon. Here’s basically what happens.

Pharaoh, king of Egypt, he’s experiencing these disturbing dreams. And searching for an interpretation that feels right to him, he hears of this young guy who’d been imprisoned, who happens to have a knack at understanding dreams. So Pharaoh wastes no time in calling for Joseph and:

וַיִּשְׁלַח פַּרְעֹה וַיִּקְרָא אֶת-יוֹסֵף, וַיְרִיצֻהוּ מִן-הַבּוֹר

Pharaoh sent for Joseph, and pulled him out of the pit.

But here’s the thing: Joseph wasn’t, really, strictly speaking, in a pit. The Hebrew term back when Potiphar put him in those dungeons was beit hasohar: a jail. But now the Hebrew has changed. The beit hasohar was gone and all of a sudden, Joseph was in… a pit, a bor.

Well… was Joseph ever in a pit? He sure was. Thirteen years ago, his brothers threw him in a pit. It seems as if the Torah is somehow intentionally blurring the narratives here.

But let’s kinda continue with the Pharaoh story. What happens right after Pharaoh extricates Joseph from that prison? The text tells us:

וַיְגַלַּח֙ וַיְחַלֵּ֣ף שִׂמְלֹתָ֔יו

After he takes a haircut, Joseph gets this change of clothes.

He gets to wear these nice, beautiful new clothes. Well, does that remind you of anything that happened back in the Sale of Joseph?

And of course, it sure does. Right before the brothers threw him in that pit, what did they do? They forcibly stripped Joseph of his beautiful coat of many colors...

Oh. So events are taking place now that seem to remind us of events that took place 13 years ago back at the pit. Except things are also kind of different now. Things are somehow… reversed.

Back at the pit, Joseph first lost his clothes and then was thrown in a pit. Now, first he gets taken out of a pit and then he gets these new clothes. So it’s all kind of a reverse. And then this change in fortune continues… because look the next thing that happens between Joseph and Pharaoh.

וַיָּבֹ֖א אֶל־פַּרְעֹֽה

And Joseph came before Pharaoh.

Here is Pharaoh, this ultimate authority figure, and he is beckoning for Joseph to come to him… and Joseph in fact comes. And think about the reverse of that event. It would be... an authority figure sends away Joseph.

Which, of course, is exactly what happened 13 years ago. Because right before Joseph was thrown into that pit, right before he lost his clothes… father had actually sent him away from him, on that ill-fated mission to go check on his brothers.

Next what happens? Pharaoh calls to Joseph and says: “I had this dream,” and I need you to interpret it for me. Of course, 13 years ago, that reminds you of something. It reminds you of something that happened right before father sent Joseph away.

Right before that, Joseph had told Jacob about his dreams. And here too, of course, it is kind of a ‘reverse:’ You see, the reverse of a father figure telling a dream to Joseph... would be Joseph telling a dream to father figure, like he does with Jacob. Moreover, Pharaoh thinks his dream is inscrutable: חֲל֣וֹם חָלַ֔מְתִּי וּפֹתֵ֖ר אֵ֣ין אֹת֑וֹ – no one can interpret my dream.

Well, of course, the reverse of a dream that is impossible to interpret would be one whose interpretation is glaringly self-evident; so obvious that it doesn’t even need interpretation. Which was exactly the kind of dream everyone thought Joseph had had 13 years ago… his dream of the sun and moon and 11 stars, all bowing before Joseph. Very subtle Joseph.

It seems so obvious what that means: A father, mother, and 11 siblings, all bowing to you. Did Joseph want to be ruler over the family, father had caustically asked him?

What Is the Lesson Behind Joseph's Repetitive Life Events?

So again, just sort of stand back and look at the whole picture here. It seems almost indisputable that the events of the Sale of Joseph are just occurring again and again, in various iterations, throughout Parshat Vayeishev, extending into at least the beginning of Parshat Miketz. It happens with Judah and Tamar, it happens with the story of Potiphar, and it happens with the story of Pharaoh.

The question is: why. I want to offer you a theory to you about that now – and I want to try and elaborate that theory for you, next week.

I’d like to suggest, by way of analogy, that a “Groundhog Day” scenario might be playing itself out here. In "Groundhog Day," a film released a good while back, a charming, but flawed weatherman, finds himself trapped in time, condemned to relive the events of a particular day, over and over again – until somehow, at some point, he can get things right, and return to normal life.

Something like that seems to be happening in the Joseph saga. And ground zero in these "Groundhog Day" replays… is the episode of the Sale of Yosef.

In other words: Things went wrong in the Sale of Yosef – badly, catastrophically, wrong. And the catastrophe, it wasn’t really owned by one particular person or even a group of people.

You see, it’s not just the brothers who are responsible for what happens. Sure, they bear direct responsibility. The brothers are the ones who kidnap Joseph and plot to sell him as a slave. But… at some level, everyone shares some degree of responsibility, greater or smaller. No one escapes.

The Torah goes out of its way to tell us, for example, that Yaakov favored Joseph, leading the brothers to hate him: וַיִּרְא֣וּ אֶחָ֗יו כִּֽי־אֹת֞וֹ אָהַ֤ב אֲבִיהֶם֙ מִכָּל־אֶחָ֔יו וַֽיִּשְׂנְא֖וּ אֹת֑וֹ. The brothers saw that their father loved Joseph more – so they hated him. So Yaakov contributed in some way, here.

And Yoseph, he too, contributed to the cataclysm. Because back when he’s shepherding with his brothers, the Torah goes out of its way to tell us something about him: וַיָּבֵ֥א יוֹסֵ֛ף אֶת־דִּבָּתָ֥ם רָעָ֖ה אֶל־אֲבִיהֶֽם, he brings back these bad reports about them to father. And that, of course, gives the brothers additional reasons to hate him.

Somehow, all this combines to create a perfect storm of sorts – a scenario so ghastly, that before it happened, hardly anyone in the family could have possibly imagined it actually transpiring: The Sale of Joseph.

So… what happens after the sale of Joseph? Evidently, Groundhog Day is what happens next.

The Principles Behind Joseph's Groundhog Day

Groundhog Day is a kind of curse for our erstwhile weatherman – he’s locked in this day; it is his prison in time, as it were. But it is also an opportunity for him: An opportunity to replay, as it were, a badly imperfect series of events… with the possibility of actually redeeming those events. It is a real second chance.

And here, in Parshat Vayeishev, maybe that is exactly what is happening: Some of the key players in this original cataclysm get a chance to revisit their roles and see if somehow they can ‘replay the day’ in a way that works better. Can they somehow redeem the past through their present actions?

Now, how, exactly, do these Groundhog Day scenarios work to redeem events of the past? That is a very intriguing question, and I’ll try and give you my answer to that next week. But in the meantime, if this theory is correct, I think we can say with confidence that one very important thing is true: in the Joseph story, even as each human being pursues his or her narrowly defined goal, there seems to be another hand working: the hand of fate, or the Hand of heaven.

Events are mysteriously conspiring to give human beings a second chance to somehow fix some of the greatest mistakes they’ve ever made in their lives. It is an astounding, but awe-inspiring, phenomenon in our history. It is a phenomenon that bequeaths hope.

Do we get second chances, in our own lives? Does God give us these sorts of opportunities, too? Do we sometimes find ourselves locked in what seems our own ‘prisons of time’, only to discover, years later, that the prison was less a prison than an opportunity, that we’ve been given the chance to fix something?

I’ll let each of you answer that very personal question for yourselves. But next week, I aim to continue our journey through the Joseph story, to try to sift through these event, to find a deeper meaning and give you a sense of how the Torah’s version of Groundhog Day may be playing itself out and what it might mean. I’ll see you then.

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